I got mad, I refused and I fought my way out of a lot of that debt just by getting a better paying job. But my spending habits didn’t change. So I ended up filing bankruptcy almost 10 years later when my debt was over FORTY-THOUSAND dollars! I actually couldn’t even AFFORD to file bankruptcy on my own, so I had to borrow money from a friend. This event was devastating.
This cycle continued for years because even after all of that stress, I still hadn't changed my habits! Struggling to make it to my next paycheck and constantly attempting to pay things down while still swiping cards. Late payments and overdraft fees galore. There just never seemed to be enough money to cover everything. The constant worry, stress, embarrassment and shame around my finances was exhausting.